Archive for September, 2009

Setting Your Intention- Part 1

September 18, 2009 in Mind | Comments (0)

Intention can be a powerful step in acquiring what it is that you most desire and living the life that is most beneficial to you.

4 Steps:

1. Set Intention: First, a focused intention must be determined, without knowing what you want, it is difficult to get it. While this may see obvious, many people have a general idea of what they want but are unable to get a clear and concrete image in their minds. At this stage, it can be helpful to write out or list your intention. For some it is easier to create a story, draw a picture, make a song, or dance. The method does not matter as long as the intention becomes clearly defined and focused.

2. Optimal State:  Second step in the process is to get into the optimal state – a relaxed body, clear and focused mind are necessary to have best results.

3. Make it Real: The third step is to make the intention real, vivid, and personal. If you intention is to get a good grade on a test, having achieved the optimal physical and psychological state, begin to feel, see, and hear yourself finishing the test with confidence. Imagine what it would feel like to get the grade you want. What are other people around you saying? What are you saying to yourself? Where are you located and what are you doing, is it bright, dark, loud, quiet? To make it personal, try adding people that can help you or that you greatly admire into the scene. Work and play with the image until it is fine tuned to maximize the “realness” of the intention.

4. Let it Go: Finally, as you hold this perfect/ideal scene of the desired outcome in your mind, imagine letting it go out into the world. By letting it go, you are practicing non-attachment and releasing expectation.

It is important to experiment and be playful with this process to find out what works best for you. My optimal process is to form an image, give it motion, add people, make it larger then life and put myself into the scene as I look down onto it. As I do this, I assess the “realness” of the constructed image by the quality and strength of feelings and sense of movement within my body. This process gives me a sense of power and control over my destiny adding to my self worth, confidence, and ability to succeed in the world.

*The 4 Steps of Intention were formulated by Vlad Moskovski in his book the Road to Involution.

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Setting your Intention- Imagery Exercise- Part 2

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Below is an imagery exercise you can utilize to help you visualize your intention.

Focused: A clear mind is able to focus much more then a distracted and scattered one. Therefore, you want to relax and get into touch with your breath and concentration before setting your intention.  You want your intention to be that focused, and clear so that there can be no doubt or confusion as to what you want to manifest.

See yourself in it: What is your intention?  Invite your eyes to close and see yourself inside the scene that you wish to happen.   You can imagine seeing yourself in the exact surrounding and situation that you would like to happen.  If other people or things are there, you can bring these into your image.  Really allow yourself to be there and then your manifestation can become real.

Action: Once you imagine the scene happening, try to create action in your mind. If there are people, they can be moving, talking, cheering, smiling. If there are no people, see yourself in motion, get some feeling into this mental movie and make sure you can actually feel the motion in your body, that is one sign that your body is going along with the imagery you are creating.

Multi-sensory: Because life is perceived through all of the senses, your image should mimic real life as much as possible. Therefore, if your intention is to have more confidence before your big meeting on Friday, Friday morning you should wake-up feeling competent, confident, and knowing that you can do it, you might see yourself with your imagined result, and lastly get in touch with the success of your most desired outcome.  What does that feel like in your body?  What emotion is behind it?  How does this make your life better?  The more senses are involved, the stronger the intention will be.

Time: The frequency with which you repeat this meditation will also determine the speed with which it manifests itself.  Imagery is more powerful the more you practice.  Running through this exercise for the first time may take a while, but once it is well formed it becomes easy, quick, and much more clear. The power and effect increase dramatically with every repetition similar to practicing any other skill, the more you do it, the better you get.


Mindful Eating

September 15, 2009 in Mind | Comments (0)

Mindfulness is the act of paying full, non-judgmental attention to our moment-to-moment experience.  We can use mindfulness to free ourselves from unhealthy eating habits and improve our overall quality of life.

Mindful eating is a practice that engages all parts of us_our body, our heart, and our mind-in choosing, preparing, and eating food.  It allows us to pay attention to colors, textures, scents, tastes, and even sounds of drinking and eating.

An example of mindful eating may look like this….Ben came home from a busy day of work, he was feeling depleted and tired.  He went into the kitchen and grabbed some chips and cookies from the cupboard and started eating them while trying to figure out what to prepare for dinner.  He ends up eating too much of the chips and cookies and therefore he isn’t very hungry for dinner.  He scolds himself that he has eaten too much and didn’t really enjoy what he was eating.  He decides he ate too much and will not be having dinner.

The next time, Ben gets home and is hungry and is feeling tired and depleted.  He checks in with himself around how he is feeling before automatically going to the kitchen for food.  He realizes that he needs some down time and finds a quiet spot to be quiet before deciding what to make for dinner.  Ten minutes later Ben feels refreshed and is able to attend to his feelings of tiredness and even sadness.  He meets both physical and mental feelings with attention and compassion.  Now he can choose something to eat with a clear mind and pay attention to what would best nourish him.  He can eat his meal slowly and really taste what he is eating and enjoy his evening.

Steps to Mindful Eating

1)  Slow it Down- It was found that in America, we often grab and go. Research shows that we spend only eleven minutes eating lunch at a fast-food restaurant and thirteen minutes at a cafeteria in their workplace.

Tips to Slowing Down

One can make a point of pausing before we eat to see the colors, roll food around in our mouths to really detect the flavors and ingredients.
If you notice that you are eating without tasting stop and pause to look at the food again.
Putting down your fork and spoon between bites is a wonderful tool to slow down.  After you have tasted and swallowed your food, you can then pick up your food again.

2)  Right Amount- This statement of right amount stems from the buddhist teaching of the eightfold path to enlightenment.   In the Buddhist teachings “right” means appropriate, beneficial, leading to happiness and freedom.  What, then is the “right amount” ?

One way to understand fullness is to check in with the body and see if you feel satisfied.
A helpful tool to use would be to ask yourself if you think you can take a 10 minute brisk walk.  If you can, you have had the right amount.  If you can’t you know you probably ate too much.
Mindful Eating is a practice, so the more you practice, the easier it will come.

3)  Energy Balance- There is an energy balance between what we take into our body for energy (food) and what energy we put out through exercise or activity.  Several studies highlight the importance of staying at a healthy weight and to prevent chronic disease such as heart disease, cancer, diabetes, etc.  Therefore, we can think of the energy balance in terms of weight management.  When we bring too much energy into the body, we gain weight.

When we bring in the same amount of energy into the body as we utilize in our activity we maintain our weight.  Lastly, when we bring in less energy and put out more activity through activity we lose weight.  In order to lose weight, we have to decrease the amount of energy we bring into our bodies through food or increase the energy flowing out.  Usually, a combination of eating less and being more active allows us to eat a moderate amount of foods we like while staying healthy with our activity.

4)  Eating Alternatives- We all have different cravings for foods.  We might have a sweet tooth or crave more salty high fat foods such as chips.  Whatever our craving is can get in the way of choosing foods that might be more supportive and nourishing to our bodies.

The Healthy Food Pyramid supports the following nutrition guidelines:
whole grains at most meals
foods that are lower on the glycemic index (lower sugars)
lots of fruits and veggies
low saturated and trans fats
incorporate lean meats, such as fish, beans, soy, and nuts for protein sources
If you stick with these tips in mind, you can consciously choose healthier substitutes for your sugar and salt cravings.

For example, if you consciously choose a slice of whole grain bread with almond butter, and agave nectar drizzled on it instead of a bowl of ice cream, you are making use of mindful eating.

5)  Wise Choice- Another helpful tip in our mindful eating is to recognize a craving for something and consciously decide if it’s something that you really, really want. Sometimes it is helpful to put foods on a scale of 0-10.  If foods rate over a 7, then it’s probably a food that you really, really want, but if it’s less than a 7, then you can pass and not feel like you are denying yourself something you really want.

For example, if you walk into an office and food is just lying around, but it’s not something you really, really want you can easily pass it up and say to yourself, “No Thanks.”

Summary of Mindful Eating

Slow down
Take a pause and conscious choice before eating
Take breaks while eating to really enjoy and assess your fullness and satiety
Mindfully choose healthier alternatives
Choose what you really, really want and enjoy it.

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